Monday, September 8, 2014

New Experiences

I had no idea I would be taking personally my recent blog on September Newness to go beyond my comfort zone into a new experience.

I admit it was fun asking Wayne, my husband to guess what I did.  He refused to try after I said he’d never guess in a thousand years.

To his credit he didn’t even blink when I said I signed up to audit a University course in Media Arts & Game Development, but then we have been married for fifty plus years and I’ve surprised him a few times - okay quite a few.

Why this class? For a long time I’d been wanting to develop a game for my kid’s book Tommy Smurlee's adventure series. At least I wanted to learn the process so if I have someone else do it I can participate in the design.

I’m in a class with about sixty young people, the only person within forty years of my age is the instructor.

I was impressed with all the helpful super friendly students I met giving me directions here and there - I had to locate four buildings to get permission beforehand in person from the instructor and sign up at the registrar and then admissions office - all in different locations of course.

I now have a parking sticker on my car that enables me to park anywhere on campus since I’m a senior citizen audit student.

My instructor blew me away with his credentials. He has worked/taught in Dubai, Scotland, the UK and is a pioneer in visual arts education and game development.

If nothing else I told myself on the forty-five minute drive to university, I can use this experience in the life of one of my characters in a future novel.

God has given us an amazing world, with incredibly talented people and it’s fun to be around the energy they generate.

Writing News: 

Directive 99 audible book is now recorded and will soon be available. I’ll let you know when.  The reader has done an outstanding job.

I’ll be at an author event for Bullet in the Night, my recently launched mystery Sat. Sept. 13th  Cornerstone Gift shop Taste of Lake Geneva from 1-4 p.m. downtown Lake Geneva. Stop by if you're closely. Refreshments will be served.

“The Lord’s mercies are new every morning. Great is His faithfulness.” Lamentations 3:23

Pictures: The sign below is on a book shelf in my office and next to it is the new Breathless Meditations book cover.

My publisher, Lighthouse Publishing of the Carolinas, an amazing fast-growing company with super dedicated professionals, has launched a new Christian Living Series and redesigned my Breathless Meditations cover for it. What do you think?

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Meaningful Conversation

I love to have conversations with depth.

I consider them meaningful.

Meaningful to me is hearing about dreams, ideas, career highs and lows, tiny joys in life right now - I've probably noticed the big ones. And I'm amazed how people light up when asked to share their deeper thoughts.

Let me explain. We took two of our older grandchildren out for dinner. On the way to meet them at the restaurant I pulled out my tiny spiral notebook (which I always keep in my purse nowadays) and jotted down a few questions I hoped to steer our conversation around.

One of final questions may surprise you, I know it surprised me and them. First you need to know these are two grandchildren in their early twenties and I asked what their thoughts were about death. (We had a tragic death in our family a little over a year ago.) I already knew both are Christians and believe in a joyous after-life. I won't tell you their answers but they were fascinating.

By the way have you had that conversation with people in your life when it can be a distant, interesting topic, not when someone has terminal disease.

Other questions were: Highlight of our family times over the years, describe a typical day in your life, joys of the past year for birthday dinners (which this was also) and anticipations for the future, relationships with friends, travel dreams, etc.

Just ordinary talk really but from my family counseling experience I know a lot of families don't talk much about them.

The Emotional Intimacy Reviver for spouses to ask each other meaningful questions each week is always free on my website.

Why do I like to give away the Intimacy reviver I designed and copyrighted? Why do I love giving away the ebooks I've written? Flowers are free. God's truth is free.  I've had a wonderful family life for half a century so why not share the few tidbits I've picked up along the way?

My Grandparent's ebook is free today Wednesday on amazon. A Super grandparent simply tries to love well. No one does it all super least of all me, but we can give it a go as best we can.

Wednesday, August 20, 2014

New Beginnings

Sweet September Newness

Do you remember when the end of August, beginning of September, signaled the start of new adventure for you. School! Usually you had a different teacher, some of the same friends with a few new kids who switched-in, and always a sense of newness.
You entered with expectation.
Fresh start-overs are good. Isn’t there usually some piece of our memories, even our present, we wish to leave behind?
Anticipation is sweet, the future WILL BE better. A coiled spring within us begins to uncoil in hope, maybe a bit of hesitation too, but hesitation and hope can live together.
Okay, maybe a bit of dread along with the excitement. Where and how do you fit into this new dynamic?
The cycle of learning and teaching continues.

What if we adults used these end of summer days to reflect and re-energize ourselves from within? Where do you need a bit of newness in your life? What adventure awaits you?
As long as we have breath and days to live, we have opportunities to be a blessing and be blessed.
What did you like to do as a child that can become fun as an adult?
Did you play with cars? Help kids build derby cars.
Maybe actually return to school too, but as a volunteer – one afternoon a week. Yes, men you as well. Father figures are hugely lacking in many children’s lives.
Remember when Jesus demonstrated that being around kids was great!
Schedule a talk at the school or local library on something you love, maybe airplanes, bring your banjo and put on a brief show. Bring a strategic board game to play. If you’re uncomfortable acting alone, call a friend and do something together. (Check in at the office in advance for clearance.)
Okay if not school what?
Collect some neighborhood kids for an at home pie-baking class. Or teach three or four how to make soup, teach the boys, too. Have a neighborhood historical battle re-enactment. Teach children in your church about God during an outdoor hike.
Maybe your heart is steering you in another direction. Volunteer to be a visitor in a hospital or nursing home where people yearn for company. Anyone who can talk and listen is qualified.
What are you anticipating doing in the days ahead?

Many of you work full time and keep a home, but isn’t there an hour or two that can become sweeter in your life with an adventure that involves new people? 
Pick up the phone, start a connection process that keeps you vibrant.
 Let’s all enter sweet September with expectation.

Scripture on newness: "And He [Jesus] said, Behold, I make all things new. And He said to me write, for these words are true and faithful.  The Book of Revelation Chapter 21, Verse 5."

My mystery novel Bullet in the Night is about a man becoming a new creation, leaving prison and starting over. 

Wednesday, August 6, 2014

Listening and Singing

It’s another gorgeous summer day for singing. I’m not a singer, not in the sense of having a glorious, melodious voice, but I want my life to sing constantly.

I like to write words that sing.

And I desire to harbor a soul that sings.

Singing makes me feel less than an inch from God.

Nature sings and so shall I.

I walk midst the harmony nature plays for me each day along the lake path around Lake Geneva. I hear waves sing and see trees swaying to God’s music.

And I listen to children’s laughter, which is simply group soul singing.

Persistent bees focus on their buzzing and busy nectar sucking. Mosquitos hum as I make my own rustles among leaves where my feet walk.

Psalm 100:2 Serve the Lord with gladness! Come into his presence with singing!

Birds tweet and cleak at me and I savor the clicks and clucks of creatures I can’t identify.

I play with sweet sounds in my mind – kind thoughts ride on vocal chords. My heart hears them.

I even sing in silence at times. 

Sing and make music from your heart to the Lord. Ephesians 5:19 

When I sing I feel as if I’m walking with God even if I’m not moving. Sometimes my singing is soft because sadness is real and intrudes even into my brightness at times.

But the music goes on and cannot be quenched.

When I actively sing I exhale, I breathe out and in tones that soothe, excite. 

A singer I shall always be.

Listen deeply and sing freely today.

Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts. Colossians 3:16

Sing to the Lord, for he has done glorious things; let this be known to all the world. Isaiah 12:5 

My mystery novel Bullet in the Night has harmony in it too. Resolution comes in the end!
Upcoming Judith Rolfs Author Appearances
For Mystery Novel Bullet in the Night

Tuesday, August 12th from 6 - 8 p.m.
An Invitation for You:
Come visit Fontana Public Library
Book Signing Event for Bullet in the Night.

Tuesday September 9th
AAUW Soup and Signings
Local Author Event at Horticultural Hall
330 Broad Street
Lake Geneva, WI

Saturday, September 13th  
Bullet in the Night Book Signing
Taste of Lake Geneva Event at the Cornerstone Shop
214 Broad St. Downtown Lake Geneva 1-5 p.m.